I was reminded of this scripture:
(Proverbs 13:12) 12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick,
But when the desire comes, it is a tree of life.
We can wait and wait, and expect things to change or to occur in our life, but yet have to endure the work of patience. As we endure the work of patience we tend to grow weary because what we expect to happen has not happened. We lose hope, we lose faith, and we begin to doubt and give up on what could and would be.
Yet, we must also remember (Galatians 6:9)9 And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.
Trust in the Lord and know that He does not forsake those who love Him. Hang on to Him, His Word, and know that He is true. Hold on. He will always come through for you. Trust and believe. He will make all things new! Just keep on honoring Him.
If you treat Him like He is your husband then He will bring you your husband/ wife.
5 For your Maker is your husband,
The Lord of hosts is His name;
And your Redeemer is the Holy One of Israel;
He is called the God of the whole earth.
6 For the Lord has called you
Like a woman forsaken and grieved in spirit,
Like a youthful wife when you were refused,”
Says your God.
Earlier today I was digging through some papers I forgot I had printed out and found a stack of articles I had looked up when God was explaining to me (Proverbs 18:16) ” 16 A man’s gift makes room for him, And brings him before great men.” I heard and read the statement that your gifts will make room for you, meaning your God-given gift/ talent is what sets you up for your destiny. Its great to have an education, but your gift will take you further than your education ever will.
Recently I have taken a break from school which was arranged by God. This break was very unexpected, but God knows what He is doing. Since I’ve taken a break I’ve had more time to spend one-on-one time with the Lord and focus more on what He wants me to do. Yet, I’ve found myself focusing on other things like considering and looking up jobs, trying to get back in school, thinking about all that hasn’t happened for me and all that I lack at this time in my life. Rather than keeping trust and faith in God that He has everything under control, I wound up losing focus on Him and worrying again and trying to take matters into my own hands. I began thinking about the promises that God revealed to me and thinking well, if this is what I’m going to do then I need to do something about getting there. I began looking up jobs and realized that a lot of the positions required certain skills or an advanced degree. Each position I look at makes me more and more discouraged because I’m under qualified or lack the experience. I consider my own skills and experience and start to think what CAN I DO? I am capable doing anything if trained, but I lack the experience. What can I do? What can I DO….?
“Your gift can take you further than your education.”
What can I do? I wrote down what I was good at, the character traits that I always exhibited, what I’m passionate about. I wrote all these things and thought to myself this is all I can do, I don’t have any special talents to showcase or something that makes me look extraordinary or significant. What I can do anybody else can do, so what makes me so special or unique that makes me worthy of having or even doing any job? I’m either over qualified for simple jobs, under qualified for jobs needing advanced degrees, or I lack the experience for jobs I am qualified for.
I sat back and thought about the articles, “your gift can take you further than your education.” It’s not about looking like everyone else, impressing everyone else, or settling for anything you can just do because of your educational status. It’s about the gift(s) that God has given you. The gifts that God has given me is meant for a specific task that God has designed me for. Its not meant for me to try to be like everyone else or impress everyone. I always thought I was talentless because I couldn’t sing, I wasn’t artistic, not athletic, etc, etc. I always thought that having a talent was about being able to stand out and impress others with what you can do. This is such a terrible mindset to have. This mindset is so dangerous to have its keeps you from appreciating and UTILIZING your own gift(s). You can not be or act like someone you are not. “You’re never going to fully give yourself to what you need to do if you don’t stop comparing yourself to other people and what they can do.- Joyce Meyers” You have to appreciate your gift because that what brings you into your destiny.
My gifts/talent: I have always been a very helpful person. I always had an urge to assist people when I can. I take the time to listen when people need to talk. I’m very caring and nurturing. I’m a people person. I work well one-on-one with people. I’m pretty well organized. I love working with little kids and enjoy watching them learn and grow. Children are very impressionable and what happens during childhood makes a huge impact in how that child will be as an adult. I’m pretty persistent and determined about seeking out information or getting things done. These are my gifts and talents. It may not be much in my eyes, but in God’s eyes its the world. I realize and I surprisingly I prayed for this just LAST NIGHT, that God would renew my mind in any area that I needed my mind to be renewed in and He did. For as long as I can remember my gifts have made an impact in people’s lives. I have done maybe the smallest thing for someone and me not realizing or knowing that I had just blessed that person because I took the time to use my gifts in order to pour into that person. I was rewarded with praise and grace all because I used the gift that God has instilled in me. When we are not focused on God’s love and too caught up in the world we tend to forget our own worth and how valuable we are. We covet what we see, constantly comparing ourselves with others, and lose track of our own destiny. There are so many things we are taught to believe that are just not true. I understand now that I must trust in God that what He has instilled in me is great and wonderful and that no matter how much education, experience, or whatever job I try to get, no manmade job can fulfill the gift that is within me. I have to remember that what God has instilled in me is the job, is the experience, is MY CALLING to do. I realize that I do have a heavy calling on my life, but I have to remember that this calling is very important and its not for me to make it in the world or be like the world, but all for the Glory of God, the uplifting of the Kingdom of Heaven.
For those who are feeling the way that I just expressed in this message or you feel like you have tried and tried and nothing seems to work for you, one thing I want to tell you is that you are special and unique in your own way. God made you for a purpose. Don’t compare yourself to anyone else. Take the time to reflect on what you are good at, what you like to do, what is your passion and then ask God what are YOU supposed to do with the gifts/ talents He has lovingly and graciously given you. Continue to seek His face and know that He loves you and will never forsake you. Embrace your gift(s) and allow the Holy spirit to guide you in using your gifts. Be blessed!
(Proverbs 18:16) 16 A man’s gift makes room for him, And brings him before great men.
If you want your blessings to start pouring in then be obedient and prepare for them. How can you receive your blessings if you are not ready to handle them? BETTER GET READY!
(1 Chronicles 29:2-5) 2 Now for the house of my God I have prepared with all my might: gold for things to be made of gold, silver for things of silver, bronze for things of bronze, iron for things of iron, wood for things of wood, onyx stones, stones to be set, glistening stones of various colors, all kinds of precious stones, and marble slabs in abundance. 3 Moreover, because I have set my affection on the house of my God, I have given to the house of my God, over and above all that I have prepared for the holy house, my own special treasure of gold and silver: 4 three thousand talents of gold, of the gold of Ophir, and seven thousand talents of refined silver, to overlay the walls of the houses; 5 the gold for things of gold and the silver for things of silver, and for all kinds of work to be done by the hands of craftsmen. Who then is willing to consecrate himself this day to the Lord?”
I am taking time to better understand Spiritual gifts and how to understand my own God given gift(s). I want to share with you all who want to understand your gift(s) and how to discover your own gift. Happy viewing! 🙂